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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Can We Pray Anywhere We Want?


What prompted this blog?

It’s this column, that complains about the lack of prayer rooms (Mescid) at my Alma Mater, Bosphorus University.

The author is among the new cohort of pious, vocal and dare-I-say liberal women journalists, who came under the spotlight after the headscarf protests in Turkish universities in 2007-8.

Full disclosure: I supported her and the free headscarf movement wholeheartedly at the time. I believe women should not be made to choose between their education and their religious beliefs. It’s ludicrous for the state to micromanage people’s clothing, especially when they’re mature adults!

But this time, I beg to disagree…
South Campus, BU

What’s the issue?

Bosphorus University has multiple campuses: South, North, Hisar, Ucaksavar and Kilyos Campuses. South is the oldest campus, but most departments, classrooms, the library, dorms, university bookstore, etc are up on the North campus. There is a small mosque right at the entrance of the North campus.

Students who observe the 5-times per day prayer rule of Islam, want a designated space in the South campus for this purpose.

The columnist above, who is also an Alumnus of Bosphorus university (Sociology), claims that this is an “ontological right”. Furthermore, she says 10 minutes between classes is not enough time to go up to the mosque on North campus. Therefore, the University has to accommodate this demand, and provide a prayer room at the South Campus.

Now, lets be frank:

The only times the students would need a prayer room during class times would be the noon & afternoon prayers, and possibly the evening (in winter times).

Depending on the time of the year, there are 2 to 5 hour windows for Muslims to complete each of these prayer duties.

Noon & afternoon prayers are not short. They have 4 parts, as opposed to 2 parts in the morning & 3 parts in the evening.

Even if there were a dedicated prayer room in the South, 10 minutes between classes is NOT sufficient time. You’ll need to run over there, walk up or down stairs (always stairs, NO ELEVATORS in South!), wash your hands-face-feet, get yourself back in order, line up, concentrate on the prayer, rush all the verses, salute, dress up & pack, and run over to the next class. Again, numerous stairs obstructing your way… In short, prayer-in-10-mins argument does not pass the reality check.

Aside from the unrealistic nature of a 10-minute prayer break, there is the issue of “ontological” rights to prayer.

I support a wide range of rights and causes, all the way from rights to express your native identity & language, religious duties, to rights of workers to a decent wage and parental rights to provide for their new-born babies without the fear of losing their jobs, to free expression of ideas, students’ right to protest peacefully, sexual rights, handicapped people’s access to services, etc, etc…

However, I would never be able to line up these rights hierarchically and say: “Hey, you know, a mother’s right to paid leave for 12 months is an ‘ontological’ right! I just gave birth to a baby! I need to take care of him/her. It’s about life & death, no? Give me my high order right and back off, you foolish advocates of lower level rights!”

Tell that to the workers and union leaders in Argentina, who were dumped into the Atlantic by the military regime, for fighting for a decent pay and decent living.

Tell that to the activists in gay movements, who are still brutally beaten up by law enforcement and ostracized by their societies in many parts of the world, for trying to live a life that is true to their personality.

Tell that to all the indigenous and minority populations, who have been fighting for decades if not centuries, to be accepted as who they are, with equal rights and dignity.

I don’t understand why people can be so utterly self-righteous, when it comes to religious rights. Why should religion be an ontological right, triumphing over all else? Why should one’s self-identity, motherhood, or demands for a decent wage in exchange for their hard labor would count LESS THAN religious rights?

Lets leave ontology for a minute, and go back to basic empirical facts:

South campus is prime real estate no matter how you look at it. The historic heart of the campus is protected by numerous zoning laws, most famous of being the Law for the Protection of Bosphorus View. Practically, this means the university cannot develop the area it sits on.

Kilyos Campus, BU
There are innumerable competing interests and demands on campus. The English prep school (YADYOK) for instance –that every student has to attend unless s/he passes an extremely hard proficiency exam- has NO SPACE to put classrooms. So it ships all its students across the city to the Kilyos campus, which is essentially a beach town along the Black Sea! These poor kids cannot see the marvelous campus they’re entitled to study for a whole year! All they have in the name of Bosphorus University is a long beach and cold winds from the mad Black Sea beating up their walls. Oh, and lots of humidity and mold

Second, office space is scarce in South. Multiple faculty members with Ivy League degrees –literally- share tiny offices cramped under sloping roofs lines.

Third, regular capacity cannot meet the demand. Under pressure from Turkey’s Higher Ed. Council (YOK) to increase enrollment, BU is having a hard time to seat and accommodate its ever-growing number of students. Hence, every bit of space, including under the stairs & old closets, are used for something, at times very creatively: toilets under the stairs, copy rooms & coffee rooms inside closets, etc… A dorm room in South Campus is the most precious thing a student can get in his/her entire college life! I had one, shared with 11 (in writing: eleven!) roommates. It was totally worth it, despite the awful metal bunk-beds, non-stop cacophony and insurmountable mess.
1st Girls Dormitory, South Campus, BU
My point: please stop demanding special treatment, and pretending that this is the most compelling case for space on South campus.

BU is the most liberal university in Turkey that not only welcomes students from all walks of life, but also helps them flourish. It is a rare gem, given the suffocating atmosphere in other universities across the country. 

Let us all be reasonable, and NOT beat the tree that bears good fruit.

The freedom loving, controversy-weary Academic Mommy





Friday, January 27, 2012

On Dichotomies and Fused Identities...


Esteemed Readers;

Nothing about Turkey is simple, easy, clear-cut, black-or-white…

Take it’s geographic location: Is it in the Mid East or in Europe? Is it Mediterranean?

How about the identity? Is it Eastern, Eurasian or Western? Is it Muslim or secular?

How free and emancipated are women? Are we traditional or modern?

Tons of academic and polemical debate is devoted on these... Yet, the jury is still out...

Here is yet another thorny subject: How gay friendly is Turkey?

I remember asking some standard tolerance questions on public opinion surveys (adopted from the World Values Survey), during my undergrad years in Istanbul.

The respondents were given some options of potentially dislikable groups, and were asked to pick their least favorite. Then, we would ask what basic rights and liberties they were willing to grant to their least favorite group.

Here is how the questions looked like:
Which group below is you least favorite?
- people who drink a lot
- people of a different religion
- people of a different denomination
- unmarried couples
- people of a different race
- homosexuals
Do you think …….. should have the right to vote?
Do you think …… should have the right to run for office in the parliament
Would you like to have …… as neighbors

Nearly in all surveys, homosexuals ranked as the top disliked group.

 Here is where things get fudgy:
Zeki Muren
This is the country where two of the top singers in classical Turkish music have openly defied homophobia. Both were loved and cherished by millions! 

And these were not some young, defiant millions. It was the very mainstream, traditional, middle-aged flock that appreciated the music of Zeki Muren and Bulent Ersoy.

Zeki Muren was openly gay. In the 1980s, he wore gleaming silver platform boots and hot pants at his concerts. Unfortunately, he passed away in 1996. To this day, my mother has tears in her eyes, when she hears Zeki Muren's voice…

Bulent Ersoy
Bulent Ersoy –may she have a long, healthy life- is a transsexual. Although she avoids political issues, she doesn’t shy away from taking confrontational positions either. Years ago she received a lot of heat for taking an anti-militaristic position on conscription in Turkey

What prompted me to write this entry was not Muren, nor Ersoy but the zenne tradition in Turkey. Recently, I had the chance to watch the movie, Zenne Dancer.  It’s a Turkish-German co-production, depicting a male dancer in Istanbul.

While giving the most homophobic responses to surveys, it is the same Turkish society that produced the tradition of men dressed as women, belly-dancing… It was an established, mainstream form of entertainment in Anatolia for ages!!!

            The movie was great! Those interested should not read the reviews but rather go see the real thing. On a topic this controversial, I think one should make the effort to receive the first-hand data, before reaching a conclusion. 

For a great essay on gays, transsexuals and zennes in Turkey, see the eminent author Elif Shafak’s article in The Guardian here

In these miserably cold winter days, wishing you all some warmth in your hearts for all the human differences...

The heterodoxy loving Academic Mommy